\u00a0Kid Rock<\/a><\/strong>). Then there was the women’s conversation about different times they had been drunk, what behavior they wouldn’t take from the men in their lives, and general discourse on life. I stayed and learned to tune it out.<\/p>\nThese experiences started me thinking about public behavior. In all of these situations, nothing was “wrong”. No laws were broken, no one was obnoxious, and everyone was within their “rights”. Was it bad manners for the family to wind up taking over the deep end of the pool? Was it their responsibility to make sure everyone around was having a turn in the pool? In conversations do we (or the family on the beach) have an obligation to look around and see if the coast is clear to discuss whatever we want to discuss?<\/p>\n
Good manners are more than a list of does and don’ts (do use a napkin in your lap, don’t blow your nose at the table). They are a basic consideration of others. I believe that good manners have taken a hit in recent years with a society that has embraced a more relaxed and casual approach to life. Our attitude in general seems to have moved toward “whatever is right for me” and others can “just get over it”.<\/p>\n
I think I should be cognizant of my surroundings and considerate of others. In public keep my voice down during conversation, look around to see if my kids jumping in the pool are splashing others, examine\u00a0the music (and volume) I play in public areas, and consider how my actions affect the people around me in general. I need to be a good example of consideration of others to my family and to the people around me.<\/p>\n
But I also think I need to take a chill pill and not be so easily offended or irritated. This doesn’t mean I don’t have opinions, but I need to wear it more loosely. People around me (and generations after me) may view life and what is “proper” differently and I need to give space to changing times.<\/p>\n
Good manners are a two way street. See you out there!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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